Decorating Day, Honoring the Fallen, and the Evolution of the American Flag

Decorating Day, Honoring the Fallen, and the Evolution of the American Flag

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“Memorial Day is a national awareness and solemn remembrance day for revering those who have gone before us,” said Maj. Gen. JB Vowell, commander of USARJ.

“It is a day for us to honor the military men and women who gave their lives in defense of our great nation, its values and its freedom.”

Memorial Day got me thinking about the flag and how it has changed both graphicly and in what it stands for over the years.

We’ve come a long way, and we are still evolving (one can hope, anyway).

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– showallegiance.com

There seem to be countless variations displayed in front of people’s homes across the country. Different flags for different folks.

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Loving this house with the flag.

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If you want to take a real deep dive into the flag (like over 3,000 flag artifacts deep) check out this book. Everything from moccasins to a “friendship” kimono.

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Americana at its best

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DID YOU KNOW…

Memorial Day was originally called DECORATION DAY, from an early tradition of decorating graves with flowers, wreaths and flags. The first national observance of this holiday occured in 1868.

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Photo by John Moore

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Photo from Jeremiah Young, owner of Stapleton Gallery in Billings, Montana, it was a irca 1913 photo of his Stapleton Building – home to both the gallery and Young’s interior design business, draped in red, white and blue bunting that sparked the idea for a recent show.

 

Below are a few works from his idea for a new show.

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The Bull, Judd Thompson

Memorial Day got me thinking about the flag and how Americans display a wide array of flags in front of their homes.

 

Everything from Black Lives Matter to LGBTQ adnd BIPOC inclusive flags.

 

Is that the case in your neighborhood?

 

The heated social and political dialogues playing out in so many cities and towns around the country (marches, riots) have emboldened people  or in some cases hindered people’s rights to display their own versions of what they might like the flag to represent.

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– Phivestargoods on Etsy

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I see the hanging of flags and signs as a healthy dialogue that is happening in our neighborhoods, which is much more complex than just two political parties’ agendas. It is a form of expression playing out throughout the country in a very visual way. To me, it is refreshing and colorful and indicative of an awareness and support for the diversity and inclusion of others.

XOXO,

SUZANNE

Cultural Icon Frida Kahlo re-ignites love for Mexican art and textiles + Studio Tullia revisits Guatemalan/Mexican Pillow Collection

Cultural Icon Frida Kahlo re-ignites love for Mexican art and textiles + Studio Tullia revisits Guatemalan/Mexican Pillow Collection

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 This was from an exhibit I saw not too long ago at the Portland Art Museum.

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And her clothes. So many rich, handmade indigenous textiles from Mexico. Lace, embroidery, bold colors. Such a feast for the eyes.

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On my bucket list: Frida and Diego’s house in Mexico City that is now a musuem.  Has anyone been?   I’d love to know how it was.

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The Global Textiles Collection by STUDIO TULLIA.

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There are some lovely handmade goods still available from this collection.

Originally it started from a unique collection of textiles from my (step)mother-in-law in Mexico and then my other (step) mother-in-law who had an amazing collection from Panama of Mola textiles.

This was a very popular collection and I have recently revisited my stash to create a revival of this collection. Stay tuned.

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SPOOKIEST SPOTS AROUND ASTORIA

SPOOKIEST SPOTS AROUND ASTORIA

ASTORIA is a magical, storied old town on the Oregon coast. The Clatsop Indians lived there for thousand of years before John Jacob Astor and his crew, aboard the  ship, the Tonquin, laid claim in 1811 to the first US settlement west of the Rockies.

In the late 1800’s,  Astoria’s salmon canneries, forest and shipping industries turned the area into the liveliest boom town between Seattle and San Francisco. 

Beautiful Victorian and Craftsmen homes along the many steep hills are testament to this golden era, now displaying historic plaques that speak of prominent sea-faring residents.

 

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Astoria has a sordid history as well, of men being “shanghaied” in the early part of the century. A man walking down the wrong street at night could wake up the next morning and find himself out at sea.

And there are many rumors of old homes being haunted by  ghosts from the past.

All of this, in a town at the mouth of the Columbia River that feeds into the Pacific Ocean, known as the graveyard of the Pacific, due to the hundreds of shipwrecks from treacherous waters.

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Mariners agree that the combination of high seas, a mighty river, land shallow, and shifting sand bars make the Columbia River bar one of the most dangerous bar crossings in the world.

THE FLAVEL HOUSE MUSEUM

The FLAVEL HOUSE, built in 1884-1886, is the most grand house in Astoria, that cannot be missed as you enter the town. Captain Flavel, Astoria’s first millionaire, lived a colorful life as an entrepreneur and bar pilot, guiding ships through the treacherous mouth of the Columbia River.

The Captain George Flavel House reflects the Queen Anne architecture, popular during the Victorian era.

A walk around the mansion provides views of the wraparound porch, decorative work above the window molding, octagonal tower, patterned shingles, the steeply pitched roof, and the asymmetrical façade.

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Over the years, this mysterious mansion has played host to a number of eerie residents, both human and spectral. 

(Can’t fail to mention the colorful tile on the porch of the house).

At one point in time, the Flavel family was one of the most prominent families in Astoria.

Operated by the Clatsop County Historical Society since 1950, it is listed on the National Registry of Historical Places.

Right next to the FLAVEL HOUSE, is the former county jail, now known as the:

 

 OREGON FILM MUSEUM       

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(where a scene from cult classic, The Goonies, was filmed.)

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If you are mindful of the current residents I recommend a visit there.  You have to see cult classic, THE GOONIES, first though. I’m sure just about every hotel in Astoria must have a copy!

The house where The Goonies was filmed.

THE OTHER FLAVEL HOUSE…

The other Flavel House in Astoria, the home of “Hatchet” Harry Flavel, was once regarded as the most haunted house in Oregon.

The abandoned house was left to rot out of spite, haunted by the decline of the city’s most prominent and mysterious family.  

This once stately home sat abandoned and decrepit on the corner of 15th and Franklin for decades, a testament to the decline of the legendary Flavel family into a strange and reclusive bunch after George’s death.

It was in this house that the captain’s great-grandson, “Hatchet” Harry Flavel, lived with his mother Florence and sister Mary at the time of the stabbing.

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Many people in the community claim that the decaying house, which sat abandoned for so long, was actually haunted. In 2015, after decades of being abandoned, Greg Newenhof bought the Flavel house and began the restoration process...For more info on this fascinating house, go HERE

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LIBERTY THEATRE

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The Liberty Theater is a historic vaudeville theatre and cinema. It opened in 1925 after the destruction of the Astoria Fire of 1922. The Liberty Theater was built in the Italian Renaissance style, seen as symbolizing the city’s rebirth. The auditorium features mural style paintings depicting Venetian scenes by local artist Joseph Knowles. 

A ghost by the name of Paul is said to live here. Over the years, many members of cast and crew have spotted him around the theater and even witnessed objects gliding through the air.

FT STEPHENS STATE PARK /THE WRECK OF PETER IREDALE

FORT STEVENS STATE PARK UNESCO estimated there are three million shipwrecks in the world. Most are under the sea. Only a few can be visited by land. The Peter Ireland is one of them.

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Peter Iredale was a four-masted steel barque sailing vessel that ran ashore October 25, 1906, on the Oregon coast en route to the Columbia River. She was abandoned on Clatsop Spit near Fort Stevens in Warrenton about four miles south of the Columbia River channel.

Over the last 101 years it has slowly deteriorated.

One can still see a very large piece of the ship and during low tide one can walk right up to it.

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PIONEER CEMETERY
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The Pioneer Cemetery was deeded to the city by a man named James Welch on April 22, 1865. It became the most popular burial site in town, boasting 498 burials by 1891. Prominent early leaders were buried here, as were paupers who were interred in unmarked graves. 

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UNDERGROUND TUNNELS

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Even if you don’t believe in ghosts, the terrifying history of this place will send chills down your spine. Located beneath the streets of Astoria, these tunnels are said to have been a hotspot for illegal activity (most notably between 1850-1941), including “shanghaiing”: the act of kidnapping people and selling them into slavery as crewmen on departing ships. The tunnels are said to be haunted by the ghosts of the tunnel’s many victims. Visitors have claimed to hear disembodied screams and groans, and felt the eery sensation that someone was standing right behind them.

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Well,I hope this inspired you to check out Astoria and visit some of it spookiest spots.

Here is a downloadable list if you are interested (just click on the link below):

5 Must-See Spots While Antiquing, Beach Combing, & Sightseeing in Long Beach, WA

5 Must-See Spots While Antiquing, Beach Combing, & Sightseeing in Long Beach, WA

TRAVELOGUE:

WEEKEND GETAWAY

Hold onto your hats, people, Summer is here!

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I made a vow to my dear friend who just lost her son to Leukemia, on Sunday, May 23rd, 2021: In memory of Sean,  I would try to live the best possible year I could live.  It has made me rethink how I spend each day. 

Hopefully in another year, it will be habitual. Take more risks and seize life’s precious moments. You know how we all fall into our ruts. An event like this shakes your whole reality and wakes you up to the fragility of life. You realize just how precious each unique experience and memory with a loved one is.

So I picked up a pen and sketchbook recently and drew for the first time in years, just for pleasure. And I actually challenged myself to get in the cold water with my daughter, which felt wonderful.

1. A secret cove at FT COLUMBIA in Chinook, WA

INSIDER TIP: You have to park on the side of the road right before the entrance to the park and walk down to the right, through a field and then you will spot it on the right side, along the river.
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An enormous tree floated down the Willamette River landing right in this charming cove that was a new discovery for us, just across the bridge from Astoria, OR on the Washington side at a park called FT COLUMBIA.

My daughter who loves to swim was determined to get in since access to pools has been non existent this past year.  This is also where the Chinook Indians used to hide their canoes.

2. HISTORIC HOUSE RENTALS AT FT COLUMBIA ALONG THE WILLAMETTE RIVER

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As you enter this historic park, you will soon drive up a hill to an overlook with bunkers and officers’ houses built at the turn of the century. This was once Chinook Indian Nation territory There are lots of trails and secluded beaches. Two of the restored buildings are available for rent – for reunions, retreats…the view is stunning, at Chinook Point, near the mouth of the Columbia River.

3. LONG BEACH, WA

 Favorite spots in Long Beach include OCEAN PARK and LONG BEACH ANTIQUES TRADING POST just down the road. 

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Long Beach is a town known for its beach and boardwalk. The Long Beach Peninsula has a continuous 28 mile sand beach, one of the longest “driveable” beaches in the world.
Memorial Day Weekend is a great time to go for “The Longest Garage Sale in the country.” You really have to hit these events by Thur/Fri at the latest or the sales are rather picked over.
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4. LONG BEACH PENINSULA ANTIQUES TRADING POST

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I love all the maritime themed objects you come across like buoys, paintings of old ships, shells, sea dollars, oyster serving platters. Astoria (and the surrounding area) is the oldest town on the west coast so there is some good loot to be found.

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I got this embroidered linen, GATHER TOGETHER, which will go in my dining room.

5. THE GRO DAMIT NURSERY

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Another fun spot is this little nursery in OCEAN PARK that has antiques in the back. The owner, Judith, is a character, adorned with Southwestern jewelry including a bear claw necklace and this amazing bracelet.

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Such a whimsical and lovely garden.

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Our Little Cabin in the Woods

Our Little Cabin in the Woods

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Every December since the kids were small we’ve gone to Silver Falls State Park for their annual Holiday Festival.  It seems crazy to take off and leave in the middle of one of the busy times of the year but I’ve come to realize as an entrepreneur and mother, a couple days and nights in an ancient forest is often exactly what we all need. 

We take hikes, explore, go to the festival – and make crafts, and wreaths, and birdhouses. And when we are back at our little cabin, we read, play cards, talk and relax.

The air is so fresh and the forest is lush and rich with ferns and moss. 

Within a one mile loop you can see two stunning waterfalls.

After marching in a protest about climate change this Fall with my kids, listening to Gretta and taking an online clutter clearing course by Denise Linn this past Summer I am less inclined to buy as much this year for Christmas. I am trying to be more thoughtful about gifting things that are truly useful.

And that are more in tune with the earth and have a lower impact on the planet.

You can see how the Pendleton textiles blend so nicely with the outdoors.

That’s one of the reasons I chose to use salvaged mill ends from the Pendleton factory this Fall and Winter. The textiles are all natural fibers and would otherwise be thrown away. I love the hunt for cool stuff in their bins. And I have to say, I have given many, many gifts made from Pendleton wool to my brother, Dad, in-laws, friends, and neighbors over the past couple years and everyone seems to truly appreciate them.

The leftover Umatilla plaid they use for the shirts are such lovely color mixes and super soft. And I love the leftover blanket scraps and fringe I can add to the cushions.

I’ve also started selling patches which you can buy on their own or have applied to accent pillows. A portion of the proceeds from all patches sold is donated to The Oregon State Park Foundation.

There is a FLASH SALE going on for the next two days on all ready-to ship items at my ETSY store.  Take a look!  Just let me know in the notes at checkout if you want anything gift wrapped.  Friday, Dec 20th is the last day to guarantee delivery with priority mail.  Thank you, thank you, thank you for following along.

Have a wonderful holiday next week and try to get to the woods!

 

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